My Life Verses

Proverbs 28:14 Blessed is the man who always fears the LORD, but he who hardens his heart falls into trouble.


Philippians 4:13 I can do everything through HIM who gives me strength.


1 John 4:19 We love because HE first loved us.


Jeremiah 17:7 But blessed is the man who trusts in the LORD, whose confidence is in HIM.


Proverbs 19:21 Many are the plans in a person's heart, but it is the Lord's purpose that prevails.

Saturday, October 4, 2008

My bad... Im sorry...

Asking an apology to what we have done wrong, intentionally or not is a very brave thing to do.. It is a step of accepting that we are wrong, and we are sorry for the damage we have caused. The damages can be emotionally, physically, mentally, morally or combination. There are several levels of apology, which is easy to say and then after we don’t really care at all with the small matter. Asking an apology sincerely to a big matter isn’t just simple, it takes a long time to think things over and to finally realize, it is as hard as forgiving. When you ask for forgiveness, you lower your pride, you humble down yourself and you loose nothing. Instead you gain respect, relationship, peace, love and GOD. Sometimes asking an apology is better if it is right after, didn’t take that long to apologize. But remember that it is never too late to apologize, there no such thing as “too late” for an apology, because what are most important are the realization of the person and the acceptance of mistake, sometimes it took some other people to accept their faults or maybe GOD gave them situation to finally realize and accept. Sometimes GOD give situation for people to realize their fault by making them feel the feeling that they have once made other feels. There are people also who are numb to realize and see their faults, which I feel sorry for them. Accepting something we’ve done wrong is wisdom, because we learn. Also it is also important that when we ask for apology, is as good as a non-word promise of “I won’t do it again.” or “It won’t happen again”. A lot of people apologize to certain things over and over again but they keep on repeating. It is important to learn and change, not to learn and maintain and not change at all. Sadly there are people who apologize without heart and sincerity, just for the sake of peace. In my opinion that I think, when you know how to apologize you'll know how to forgive... And lastly when we know how to accept mistakes we know we have GOD in us, why? We also will know how to repent and ask for forgiveness of our sins to him… make sense huh?? hehe

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

It is better to lose your pride with someone you love rather than to lose that someone you love with your useless pride.
Hi, Mj. Nice blog...

mj said...

hehe im super touch antonette.. you made a comment .. heheh im so happy.. na may mga tao nag reread ng blog ko and giving comment.. hehe yeah true ang comment mo hehe pero kahit hindi mo love yung tao.. pwede ka pa din mag baba ng pride.. hehe

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