man

once bok su fooled me and pretended to be as Charleson at Ym,

he asked me... what's my standard for a guy?

I answered him, 1st Matured Christian 2nd should be a man 3rd etc.....

he said im wrong... i asked why?

he answered me.. 1st should be a man 2nd Christian...

that thought just stayed on my mind, never forgotten..

and now i know why.. and i understand why...

because a man, should know how to be a man so he can be a good Christian... as for me now i agree to have my standard 1st man 2nd christian... because no matter how matured christian a guy can be.. if he is not a man, not acting like a man, don't know how to be a man... everything will be pointless and can cause hardship for a woman... gets? understand? ^_^