Respect

We must always know how to respect people’s decision.
In love, if someone decided to dump us and not chose us, respect that.
And be happy for him/her/them, even if it sounds painful... because that’s true love, being happy for the person we love. If we really want him/her to be happy, it doesn't mean to be with us, sometimes we need to let them go.
and if they come back on time, they are ours, if not, they're not..
In love, if someone is in a relationship or if his/her heart belongs to someone (maybe M.U. or courting stage), respect that. Give them the space, even if their relationship is good or struggling. Because we wouldn’t want to have someone whose heart and mind belongs to somebody/someone else. we’ll end up not happy too.
that is what I am giving them, RESPECT, even if nobody gave that to me when I/we we're struggling.