better hurt

if people hurt you, just smile... instead of raising your right hand intending to slap them, hold it and let it meet with your left hand..then pray for them...ask GOD to forgive them for they don't know what they do...for 8 yrs im holding to this in my mind that "it is better to be hurt than to hurt" in tagalog.. "mas mabuti na ikaw ang saktan.. kaysa ikaw ang makasakit.." :)))